Sabtu, 09 November 2013

WHAT IS THE MEANING OF A FRIENDSHIP




Companions. What is the meaning of a friendship? There are friends who say it is a friend who is really close to know little things about us. There is also a friend who said that if anywhere is always the same. But one of my friends say, that friend is a friend in joy and sorrow, but the limit knows to which a time when friends can be a problem, we should let him solve his own problems so that your friends are growing more mature and independent.
Sometimes I simply say he was my friend. But when asked about this was my best friend related to family, education and others, I was confused he replied it. From there, I think what is my good friend? What I should be called a friend? Because I think a friend is one who can see us from heart to heart, not because of the face, content, background, education and others. Therefore I do sometimes ask that privacy matters to my friends. I'm more of a giver and receiver input laments my friends. Not that I'm someone who does not care and do not want to know, but I think that friendship is not judged by how deeply we know the nature of the person, but how deeply we understand the person. I've tasted the bitter swill of friendship when I told him my friend, it turns out he's just using what I have and others. When I was falling, he left because he felt nothing could be given by me.

What is the only of meaning of friendship?

One day I said Junita is my friend. When Junita asked, who the friend you, Junita answer novi, winda, endriano but did not mention my name. From here I tried to think again. Am I not include her best friend? What I am not a good friend? This often happens in my mind my friend a lot. I went with different friends. But whether they are my friends? Because sometimes different friends to hang out with friends.
There was a friend of mine send message statement, "I do not expect to be the most important person in your life, it requests that are too large. I just hope one day when hearing my name, you must have smiled and said he was my friend. "Ahm! It really cut into my heart. That's the word I was looking for. I do not need a statement of anything. But when someone mentions my name, he would say "Chika is my friend". I do not need to mention who those friends of mine, Because you know who you are. For me, friends are people who consider me as a friend. We do not need mention my friend is Junita, novi, winda, and endriano. Since the first name only forgotten, he would be sad. If your friend mentions the names of his friend but forgot to mention your name, you must be sad. Therefore I can only say the people who are my best friends are people who consider me as a friend.




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